If I categorize life it would be in 3 stages — childhood, teenage and adulthood. I will be finally saying a goodbye to my adolescence very soon but before that, my teenager-self wants to convey this message to the future me. Here it goes :
Dear future me,
You never know you may find yourself all defeated, at lowest of the low. You may find yourself giving up. Before you do, let me remind you that you just cannot abandon me by giving up yet. Because, it’s not only about you but us. It has been about you and me and it has to be the same way, whether snorting in laughing or crying in the shower. You endured agony, you shed tears in distress, you craved for someone’s nearness, you craved for care, for some affection and most importantly for someone’s time. Your hankerings weren’t satisfied although, you contrived to be happy. You contrived to survive. You survived when I called you a loser, ugly and you even survived being juxtaposed throughout all your adolescent life.
All I can say is sorry. I am contrite! Sorry for not believing in you, for scorning you, for uttering such words which I wouldn’t even have addressed my worst enemy as. Lastly, I am sorry for not loving you.
Since I believe in you and love you now, I can only request you to do one thing : don’t abandon me by giving up!
Negative self talk is the most common teenage problem which exerts bad influence on mental health. Let go the victim mentality and set yourself free. Be aware of your inner critic.
😘😘🌹📖 great work
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Thanks tanya
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Good work…keep it up simran
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Thanks yash
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Such lovely words. It’s too true that we beat ourselves down so much and it’s something we should all do alot less xo
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Thanks for stopping by. 😁
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Love this we all need more positivity towards ourselves
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Thankyou for stopping by
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YES! We are often our harshest critic and don’t realise it. Such a great and neccessary post x
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Thank you , stay tuned
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We really are our hardest critics. We should give ourselves more credit. Go us!
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True that. Go US!
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Beautiful post. As a more **ahem** mature lady, I can tell you with certainty, that negative thoughts or questioning your own self worth is the most destructive thing you can do. I have two teenage sons that I spend my life telling they are enough, they are good enough and they are the generation to change the world. Well written post xx
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Teenage can be really tough. Thanks for stopping by. Means alot 😁😄
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Your posts are always so nicely written and I always learn a lot of things from them. We all have to love ourselves and don’t be too hard on our mistakes. xx
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Thanks for Reading 😘
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Self-criticism is such a strange thing: we know it’s wrong but we can’t stop ourselves from doing it.
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Atleast we can give a try and trust ourselves.
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Another great post, keep up the good work! It is very true that we criticise ourselves the most! It is so hard not to do it, though
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Yes it is really hard to control but once it stops it stops forever.
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Hi Simran it’s a powerful letter penned on the issues faced by adolescents ushering to discover the most amazing things of life. Stay in touch and keep writing,
xoxo
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Hello vishal ! Thankyou for standing by. Stay tuned.
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Outstanding dear..keep it up👍👍👍
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Hey Simran, I have nominated you for the versatile blogger award. I’m sure you’ll like it. You can check it out here:
https://theshininggem.wordpress.com/2017/07/28/the-versatile-blogger-award/
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Thanks
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